With the Hadith
Chapter on Ingratitude to Spouses and Disbelief Less Than Disbelief Therein
Mentioned in Fath al-Bari, commentary on Sahih al-Bukhari by Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani, with modifications, in "With the Hadith," and we begin with the best greeting: peace, mercy, and blessings of God be upon you.
Mentioned in Sahih Muslim, in the commentary of Imam al-Nawawi "with modifications" in "Chapter on Ingratitude to Spouses and Disbelief Less Than Disbelief Therein."
Narrated by Abdullah bin Maslama from Malik from Zaid bin Aslam from Ata bin Yasar, from Ibn Abbas who said: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "I was shown Hellfire and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Are they ungrateful to God?" He said, "They are ungrateful to their spouses and ungrateful for good deeds. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime, then she sees something (bad) from you, she will say: I have never seen any good from you."
Dear listeners:
It was narrated that Al-Asma'i said: I entered the desert and saw a woman from the most beautiful of people in face under a man from the ugliest of people in face, so I said to her: O woman, do you accept for yourself to be under someone like him? She said: O this, be quiet, you have spoken badly, perhaps he has done well in what is between him and his Creator, so He made me his reward, or perhaps I have done badly in what is between me and my Creator, so He made him my punishment, so shouldn't I be pleased with what God has pleased for me? So she silenced me.
O Muslims:
This view has changed among women, and the view is no longer linked to reward and punishment, but rather the interest has become the basis for dealing in this time, until the woman became ungrateful for her husband's blessings, denying and rejecting them, and not thanking him. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, expressed this with ingratitude to emphasize this behavior. The matter did not stop at not being patient with the husband; rather, it extended to the denial of kindness and beautiful companionship. So where is this from the rulings of Islam? And where is this from patience? There is no doubt that the concepts of patience and the concepts of morals have disappeared from existence these days, and have been replaced by the concepts of benefit, the concepts of price, and the concepts of the self. That was when the sun of the Caliphate, which applies the Quran and its rulings on earth, disappeared.
O God, hasten for us a Caliphate on the Prophetic model that gathers the scattered Muslims, lifts from them what they are in of affliction, O God, illuminate the earth with the light of Your Noble Face. O God, Amen, Amen.
Our dear loved ones, and until we meet you with another prophetic hadith, we leave you in God's care, and peace, mercy, and blessings of God be upon you.
Written for the radio by: Abu Maryam